The legendary Greek philosopher, Aristotle once stated, “Different men seek after happiness in different ways and by different means, and so make for themselves different modes of life and forms of government.” Amongst these different men are warriors, thieves, kings, princes, liars, fools, and various other assorted characters. From all this variety the question arises, how do you differentiate between the various types of men? The simplest answer; pay attention. Nevertheless, other questions still arise. Specifically, the question of, “Why do men cheat?” There is no specified, scientific formula or reference manual to give detailed answers on the behaviors of people let alone men. Every man’s experiences are different and cannot be explained, but I can deliver to you a breakdown of the psyches of different men and give some insight into why they make certain choices. Why do men cheat? Simple answer; because they can. If that is too simply to understand then I present to you as a man my thoughts on those you should familiarize yourselves with. I hope this helps in aiding your understanding. God forbid that any of you have two and three combinations of the men mentioned in this listing.
#The Warmongering man
This man cheats because he’s actually trying to “fuck every girl in the world”. These men cannot separate their brain from their reproductive organs. This is your commonplace, sometimes easily identifiable man. They constantly flirt, tease, hint, and make suggestive comments toward random women, coworkers, family friends or in severe cases; in-laws. Their eyes always wander and their always in search of “new pussy”. The only requirement most of these men ask of a female is that she is sexually active. They can be found working at Payless Shoes, shopping at a grocery store, or facilitating a pastorship at your local 10,000 member church. If you pay attention you can easily identify them because most of their conversations are geared toward sex. Examples of a whoremongerer’s conversation within the first 30 minutes of meeting you include but are not limited to, “When did you first lose your virginity?” or “What was your freakiest sexual experience?” Some are very suave while others are apes, but tell a whoremongerer you’re celibate or looking to be married within the year and he will fade to black quicker than you can say, “I was just playing.”
#The Opportunist
This man simply cheats because the opportunity to cheat presented itself to him. He wasn’t looking to cheat, but couldn't refuse the temptation. Often times, this man cheats with someone close to him, a past sexual partner, or someone he’s in constant close quarters with on a daily basis. The participant could be a coworker, a friend, baby mama or random acquaintances. Also, there are those women who specifically seek men in committed relationships for varying reasons. Men with prominent names, profiles, and abundant sources of wealth are highly susceptible to become targets of aggressive women seeking to initiate a coup of these men. In most cases, these men are happy with their significant others, but just could not refuse the sex being freely offered or suggested to them.
#The Daredevil
This man cheats because it’s exciting and adventurous to him. In essence, it is a game. The idea of being able to deceive multiple women into having sex and never being caught is a stimulating act and idea. When caught cheating, this man then finds ways to manipulate and convince women to believe statements such as, “I’ll never do it again”, “that was my 1st and only time; I swear” and the infamous, “I don’t love her I love you”. The thrill of the chase and the optimism of being able to perpetuate a promiscuous lifestyle is the reason why this man cheats.
#The Freak
This man cheats because their sexual appetites, desires, and fantasies are not being fulfilled by the significant other. They have become involved with and committed to a sexually incompatible partner. His favorite position is “doggy-style” but she considers it to be a degrading position. He loves blowjobs, but she thinks the mere act of oral sex is undignified and repulsive. He wants to visit sex shops and introduce sex toys to the relationship, but she says, “Only child molesters, homosexuals, lesbians, and perverts go to those kinds of places.” Men can only be deprived of their sexual wants and desires for so long. The deal breaker for most of these men is when their significant other withholds sex from them. This action usual prompts the man to go and seek sexual gratification from another.
#The 007 / or The Unconvinced
This man cheats because he is unconvinced that YOU are “The One”. This man is never satisfied with you, but most will never show actual displeasure. You are considered by him to be a temporary relationship pit stop. He is relentlessly looking for “The One” thinking that he can ALWAYS do better than you. This is one of the MOST DANGEROUS men you could ever become involved with because his Denzel skills are immaculate. He will act and speak as if he sincerely cares and loves you. He will seemingly appear to be the one because these men can possess highly desirable qualities many women look for in a man. He will shower you with gifts, attend church and bible study with you, give you constant compliments, is always cordial and respectful, will introduce you to his family, and possibly initiate the conversation of marriage and children in the future. These men are so treacherous that they could go years at a time without you ever having a clue about them cheating and seeking other supposedly “better qualified” women compared to you. This man is not easy to identify. However, one telltale sign is when he speaks of other women; he’s always subtly comparing YOU to them. When he thinks he has found a much better “upgrade” compared to you, he will end the relationship or become suddenly disinterested without moment’s notice. This man is spread out over the entire spectrum of men and has no age limit. He could be 17 years old or 50.
#The Disappointed
This man cheats because the high opinion and pride he once felt for his significant other has diminished due to various reasons. The reasons range from weight gain, attitude, ambitions, children, or just simply growing apart. Some men have the audacity to be total and complete physical slobs while still demanding perfection from the woman. Also, some women after having children focus more on the children than the man which can cause the man to feel neglected. This especially is the case for those couples who were very spontaneous and adventurous before they had children, but once the children entered the picture the relationship became boring.
#The Abused/or Martyr
This man cheats because his significant other simply emotionally, mentally and in some cases physically abuses him. This man is taken for granted and never appreciated. He’s is the one always catering to and seeking to please her wishes and demands. Some of these men are constantly berated and belittled. Most of these men have had children with women that they otherwise would not have had been in a relationship with. For that reason, is why some absorb the abuse and neglect. The first woman who comes along and shows any kind compassion or tenderness toward this man he instantly becomes attached to which leads to possible inappropriate interactions.
#The Impressionable
This man cheats because he aspires to be considered a “ladies man” amongst his friends. It does not matter the setting or situation with this type of man. He can be married and have all married friends. If half or all his married friends are cheating, he’s going to cheat along with them. If this man is the only married man of a group of single men, he will try to live his life as if he were still single. With this man it is all about the comradery and relationships he has with his friends than actually trying to retain a woman. These men are easily identified by their immaturity and unwillingness to compromise.
#The Vengeful, Bitter, Spiteful, & Brokenhearted
This man cheats because he has been abused, hurt, and cheated on is hell bent on returning the favor to any women that may cross his path. This man always finds a way to mention his past experiences with women and how bad he was treated. He desperately wants it to be known that he has never been appreciated and respected by a woman. Also, he tends to throw the terms “bougie” or “stuck on herself” around a lot when describing women. In general, this man does not respect women and has a habit of treating women more as property than an actual person.
# The Caveman
This man’s entire mental makeup is barbaric and antiquated in regards to women. He not only feels that it is an unrealistic premise for a man to be monogamous, but it is a man’s right to be able to be with any women he feels he is attracted to. These men treat women solely as property and are extremely jealous and possessive. Often times, they are violent and disrespectful toward women they are involved with when given the chance. Also, the insecurity levels in the Cavemen are extremely high. They have multiple issues with not only women, but also life in general.
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Posted by: Curtis James on January 15, 2010
